Get Your Dream Boy This Valentine-5 Steps You Should Take
So, there is this particular guy living on your streets that you just can’t get your eyes off. Or is it that cute dude you can’t just help stealing quick glances at every time he crosses your path and you can only silently pray and wish he will be yours?
Gone are the days of waiting around and hoping ‘he might just notice that I’m noticing him’. Who says ladies can’t make the move too? This valentine season is the podium you need to let that special one know just how much he means to you. Here are five (5) smart things you seriously need to consider:
1. SWALLOW YOUR PRIDE:
The part of the world we are makes it seem inappropriate for a lady to approach a guy first, and therefore, even when a lady is interested in a guy, the pride of ‘‘Damn! I’m a lady’’ usually turn them off from fulfilling their dream. If you are to get that guy you want though this valentine, you’ll need to swallow your pride and push it down with water. Everyone is entitled to expressing how he/she feels.
2. LOOK GOOD AND CHARMING, GUYS WANT IT:
Even if you are not beautiful in the world’s sense of the word ‘beauty’, you just have to make yourself look good. No matter how some try to claim otherwise, every guy is attracted to a good looking and breathtaking lady. Also remember good hygiene. Don’t spoil your first contact before it even start with a repulsive odor. Look your best.
3. DISCOVER THE BOLDNESS WITHIN YOU AND MAKE YOUR MOVE:
All of us have a little kid inside of us that can do and undo. This little thing can help us overcome even the biggest of obstacles. All you have to do is discover and unleash yours. Granted, it won’t be easy to make your move. What if he doesn’t want me? You might wonder. Don’t worry, control the part you can and let the rest handle itself.
4. LEAVE YOUR CIRCLE OF FRIENDS BEHIND:
This is really one thing that turns many prospective boyfriends and eventual husband off and you should avoid it. The time you chose to tell that guy that big thing on your mind isn’t the time to go with your battalion of friends. He wouldn’t really take you serious. Save a chaperon for your first date at least.
5. SEND HIM A MIND BLOWING ROMANTIC SMS:
Wow! This can really get any guy dancing to blues. Believe that! After you must have followed the above steps and gotten your heart rob, just throw him few of those love and romantic SMS that night already. It does wonders.
Get Your Dream Girl this Valentine-5 Steps You Should Take
Okay. So, there is that beautiful lady you attend classes with who never allow you concentrate, always distracting with her beauty? Or is it that pretty damsel who gives you butterflies whenever you see her smile? You can keep staring from now till tomorrow but can’t just mumble together a sentence. Don’t feel bad, you’re not alone.
You’ve spent a whole lot of time on secret admiration and silent appreciation but unfortunately, there has been no expression. Don’t worry, this is the time. This love season presents you with the perfect platform to face your fears; make your move. Here are five (5) sure things you need to do to get that girl of your dreams this valentine.
1. BURY YOUR SHYNESS:
What on earth could have made you admire a lady for weeks, months even years and you’ve failed to even say a ‘Hello!’? Most likely you are just a shy person LOL. Don’t feel bad though, you can handle that. You can start saying a greeting now if you’ve not been doing that. That sets the pace for the big day. If the issue is what to say, why not talk to a friend who you know can help. Cast that spirit of shyness out and shut the door behind you.
2. DRESS GOOD, SCENT BETTER, and LOOK YOUR BEST:
The way you dress is the way you are addressed’, the old saying goes. That can’t be too far from the truth. Many guys have met undesirable rejection in their approach to a lady because of the way they look and smell. Dress neatly and smartly, maintain a good hygiene and get ready to catch your crush. Remember, no one wants to date a bag of worms.
3. MAKE YOUR MOVE, BE CONFIDENT:
Alright, now is the time to face your fears squarely. Having discovered the confidence within you and looking your best now make your move. Walk up to her at a convenient time and exude confidence. Try not to be jerky and even if you are not sure you are saying the right thing, just look like you are. Hahaha.
4. KEEP IT SIMPLE, BE POLITE, and DON’T FLATTER:
We know you must be excited getting the opportunity to talk to this damsel at last, but please save a comprehension for another day. Go straight to the point, be a gentle man and respect her time. Be polite in your speech and your gestures. Tell her the truth, try not to flatter her. Ladies know when you are flattering them.
5. SEND HER A MIND BLOWING ROMANTIC SMS:
So, you’ve done your part and have gotten the magic YES. Wow! Or maybe you got the more like ‘I’m not that desperate’ answer i.e. GIVE ME TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT. Still interesting! Or you got the rather cold NO. Not that bad! Regardless of the reply, don’t forget this step. Go to your bulk SMS account and send a customized mind blowing love and romantic SMS to Bae.